IAM2WANDA™ · THE ORIENTATION METHOD™
The O Method™
Orient. Orientate. Observe. Organize.
See what has your attention. Understand what it is doing to you. Know what you stand on. Decide what comes next.
The signature method of 2Wanda, Behavioral Advisor. A practical way to use behavior as data, understand what an experience is showing you, and decide what you choose to stand on next.
WHAT THE METHOD IS
It begins by helping you see.
The O Method™ is the practical application of The Orientation Method™, created by 2Wanda.
It gives you a repeatable way to examine what has your attention, understand why it matters, notice what your response is presenting, and decide whether that presentation agrees with the Standard you choose to stand on.
Behavior is Data. The Method does not begin by correcting behavior. It begins by helping you see clearly enough to choose what comes next.
“The Method does not begin by trying to fix you. It begins by helping you see.”
UNDERSTANDING BEFORE ACTION
THE PRACTICAL PROCESS
Four O’s. A clearer way forward.
Use the same four actions in different positions and environments. Each helps you see more of the experience before deciding what comes next.
Orient
Identify what has your attention.
What has my focus?
Orientate
Locate yourself in relation to the experience.
Where am I in relation to it?
Observe
Recognize why it matters and what it reveals.
What is this showing me?
Organize
Bring understanding, choice and next steps into alignment.
What do I choose to stand on?
Clarity does not require action. It requires ownership.
THE DEEPER LANGUAGE
The Method has a foundation. The website only introduces it.
The O Method™ is practical. Behind it is a deeper Self-Love language that 2Wanda teaches more fully through the e-book, Self-Orientation mentorship and professional training.
01 · CREATOR
Existence
The Origin.
02 · I AM
Possibilities
All wisdom, knowledge, understanding and what may be possible.
03 · PURPOSE
Awareness
Purpose moves with the experience and helps make what is happening known.
04 · CREATION
Humanity
Where possibility becomes lived human experience.
05 · SELF
Soul
The personal place of experience; introduced as Mind, Will and Emotion.
06 · SELF-LOVE
The Standard
The Standard Self identifies and returns to when measuring current Identity.
Behavior is Data. Identity is the current presentation. Self-Love is the Standard.
YOUR GUIDEPOSTS
The 2WANDA™ Pillars
The Four O’s guide the process. The Pillars help you understand the Standard, Focus, Awareness, Experience, Expression, and Alignment you bring into it. Select a letter to explore its meaning.
2 — SELF-LOVE | STANDARD
What do I choose to stand on?
Self-Love establishes the Standard. Love is the Standard Identity Self intentionally chooses to align with—not simply self-care.
What does being aligned with myself mean to me?
WORK WITH 2WANDA
Learn the Method. Apply it to your life, care, work or business.
IAM2WANDA is the home of The O Method™. The I AM Circle™ is the ongoing community. The three mentorships and one professional training give people defined ways to work with 2Wanda.
FOUNDATIONAL SELF-ORIENTATION MENTORSHIP
Loc’d In Self-Love™
Identify your Self-Love Standard, understand changing Identity, and learn how to measure what you are presenting against what you choose to stand on.
Ask about Loc’d In Self-Love™PARENTS, GUARDIANS, KIN & LOVED ONES
Family Care Navigation™
Use Orientation to understand the family’s position, systems of care, professional roles, supports, resources and next steps.
Ask about Family Care Navigation™ENTREPRENEUR MENTORSHIP
Carepreneurship™
Apply Orientation to the entrepreneur, the business, its purpose, design, responsibility, capacity and place within care.
Ask about Carepreneurship™PROFESSIONAL APPLICATION
Orientation Training
Learn how to apply The O Method™ in everyday and professional environments after understanding the foundation in Self.
Ask about Orientation TrainingThe I AM Circle™ is the optional ongoing community for people who want continued reflection, conversation and connection after or alongside a pathway.
WHY THE METHOD EXISTS
A method born from the need for clarity.
2Wanda created The Orientation Method™ from her experience of being capable, carrying responsibility, navigating relationships, and wanting to understand why certain experiences affected her and how she was choosing to respond.
That inquiry became a way to recognize behavior, understand its meaning, see the current Identity being presented, and choose whether it agreed with her Standard.
“The question comes back to you. Can you understand your behavior? Can you stand on it? And if you cannot—what would you want instead?”
THE HEART OF SELF-ORIENTATION
EXPLORE A LITTLE DEEPER
Questions worth returning to.
The Method has a deeper body of teaching. These short reflections introduce the ideas without requiring you to read a full manual on the landing page.
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Behavior communicates and affects relationships, environments, and how we see ourselves. The O Method™ does not automatically decide that a behavior is good or bad. It begins by asking why it matters, what it reveals, and whether it requires your participation.Sometimes you can understand something without needing to respond.
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The Identity you present now can change. Self-Love is the Standard Self identifies and chooses to return to. Alignment asks whether the current Identity agrees with that Standard.
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No. Observation can help you recognize what you want to own, what to release, what boundary might matter, or when to leave something alone. You may choose to respond, repair, wait, reorient, or make no further move. The purpose is to decide with clarity.
FROM SELF INTO CARE
Different home. Shared standard.
IAM2WANDA teaches the Method and provides 2Wanda’s mentorship and learning pathways. 2WANDA Brands™ is the separate professional care-agency ecosystem, where professionals orient to their positions in care around Beloves.
YOUR NEXT ORIENTATION
See yourself clearly.
Know what you stand on.
Explore the Method, find the pathway that fits your position, or begin a conversation with 2Wanda.